The little girl was surnamed Xiong who had such a family nickname very distressed (video)-巴雷特m82a1

The little girl was surnamed Xiong who had such a family nickname very distressed daughter " because the name bears, usually also love bear, former classmates called her "happy bear", now some naughty boys began to call her "big bear", which makes her daughter very distressed. " yesterday, Ms. Huang, who lives in evergreen garden, complained to reporters. Surnamed Xiong called " love bear big bear; " Ms. Huang said, daughter in love bear, not only to choose clothes, stationery and other bear patterns, even her classmates send gifts, pick bear pattern, because the character is very cheerful, students initially called her " " bear, she felt happy; kinda cute. Recently, the class some naughty boys began to call her big bear " ". Daughter is the monitor, think this nickname let her in the classmate without prestige, so some depressed. Reporters in some elementary schools in Jiangcheng interview found that many students have nicknames, and some people even have five or six nicknames. Reporters noted that the children imagination is very rich, the nickname is to seize some features, according to some characteristics, but also some talk. A usually do not care about the students and the class of the students, we have been called " " mummy; looks a little black, like a mushroom head student called " " small beggars mushroom; wearing glasses, a Facebook angry boy called " Dr. "…… A primary school head teacher said that children nicknamed each other, reflecting their naive, curious, imaginative age characteristics, teachers usually do not deliberately intervene. " of course, some malicious nicknames, the teacher will stop it immediately. " nickname is good, parents have some opinions, some parents clearly expressed disgust. " some nicknames are not malicious, but they are not pleasant to hear. " Changchun Street Primary School Parent Mr. Zheng said, he told his daughter: " as long as someone called your nickname, you do not hear. It’s only when you call your name that you’re happy to respond. If a nickname asks you why you ignore it, you have the right phrase to say, "please call my name", and after a long time, the nickname fades away. " some parents don’t like it. Ms. Yucai, a small parent, said that nicknames might be regarded as a test for students to resist setbacks. " I told the children, some nicknames are not good, but people always grow up, can not be smooth sailing, the important thing is to set the mentality, do not look too heavy. Time dilutes everything. The more you care about it, the more people shout, the less you care about it, the less interesting they become, the less interested they become. " parents to see the teacher should guide " usually the teacher should tell the child, the nickname is not respect for students, especially some demeaning nickname means. " Liu Sheng, President of Huangpi Street Primary School in Jianghan District, said that the teacher might debate the behavior of nicknames for students, and let them know through debate and reflection

熊姓小女孩被人起了这样一个外号 家人很苦恼" 女儿因为姓熊,平时也喜欢小熊,以前同学都叫她‘快乐小熊’,如今一些调皮男生开始叫她‘大狗熊’,这让女儿很苦恼。" 昨日,家住常青花园的黄女士向记者诉苦。姓熊喜欢熊 被叫 " 大狗熊 "黄女士说,女儿特别喜欢小熊,不仅衣服、文具等要选有小熊图案的,就连她送同学礼物,也挑小熊的图案,因为性格很开朗,同学起初都喊她 " 快乐小熊 ",她觉得还挺可爱。最近,班里几个调皮男生开始叫她 " 大狗熊 "。女儿是班长,觉得这个外号让她在同学中没有了威信,因此有些郁闷。记者在江城部分小学采访发现,很多学生都有外号,有的人甚至有五六个外号。记者注意到,孩子们想象力很丰富,起的外号有的是抓住外貌特征,有的是根据性格特点,也有的是信口开河。一位平时不关心同学和班集体的学生,被大家叫做 " 木乃伊 ";长相有点黑、头型像蘑菇的学生被叫做 " 丐帮小蘑菇 ";戴着眼镜、一脸书生气的男生被叫做 " 小博士 "……一名小学班主任表示,小孩子相互起外号,体现出他们天真、有好奇心,富有想象力的年龄特质,老师通常不会特意去干预。" 当然,有些恶意的外号,老师会马上制止。"外号好不好 家长有看法一些家长对外号明确地表示反感。" 有些外号虽然没恶意,但也不好听。" 长春街小学家长郑先生说,他告诉女儿:" 只要有同学叫你外号,你就当作没听见。只有叫你名字时,你才高兴地回应。如果叫外号的人问你为什么不理睬,你就有理有节地说‘请叫我的名字’,时间一长,外号就会渐渐消失。"也有家长对此不以为然。育才一小家长罗女士表示,外号不妨当作是同学给孩子一次抗挫力的考验。" 我告诉孩子,有的外号不好听,但人总要长大,不可能一帆风顺,重要的是摆好心态,不要看得太重。时间会冲淡一切。你越在意,别人就越叫,你越不在乎,他们就会觉得没意思,就渐渐没了兴趣。"家长要看淡 老师要引导" 平时老师要告诉孩子,起外号是对同学的不尊重,尤其是一些有贬低意味的外号。" 江汉区黄陂街小学校长刘胜表示,老师不妨针对学生起外号的行为开展辩论,让学生通过辩论、反思,了解起外号的利与弊。" 这样做比简单地制止更有效。"武汉市教科院副院长朱长华也认为,与其堵,不如疏,老师要走近学生、倾听学生,通过同学们能够接受的方式,纠正不良倾向,为学生的健康成长奠定基础。" 如有的学校开展关于‘优秀外号’的主题班会,看看同学们有什么优点,用‘小画家’、‘百灵鸟’等大家都愿意接受的外号,让外号不再成为部分学生的困扰。"他同时建议家长,对外号的事不必太在意,好的欣然接纳;对不好的外号,教育孩子冷处理,适时向老师求助,以获得最恰当有效的处理。(记者郭会桥) 暴走街拍!你的外号是什么?相关的主题文章: