What are the reasons why 3 junior middle school students in Xi’an have been away from home for 3 day-jessica rabbit

What are the reasons why 3 junior middle school students in Xi’an have been away from home for 3 days? For three days, 3 junior high school students in Xi’an left home. 16 days away from home girl Yue Yue was enthusiastic people found in time to the police station, the 18 day away Xiao Li has been found by his family last night, and another boy away, as yet no news. Education experts believe that children running away from home has a lot to do with the family education environment. And psychological experts say that not everyone has a strong psychological, as children, when they encounter setbacks, the need for psychological support from the family and school. The boy lost his bus after school, and he was 14 years old. He was about 1.7 meters tall. He was a third year student of Xi’an Jiao Tong University affiliated middle school. He lost his job after school in the afternoon of September 18th. According to the parents, they retrieved the surveillance video near the display, Xiao Li from Xi’an Jiaotong University near Sha Po bus station take bus 401 (children have never traveled by bus), after I do not know where to get lost. It is understood that Xiao Li wearing the school attached to the high school uniforms, back light pink schoolbag. Reporters learned last night, lost Xiao Li has been found by his family. Time to push forward two days, September 16th at 6 p.m., Xi’an third grade girl Yue Yue ran away from home. The family got mad and looked around the city. At noon on September 17th, enthusiastic citizens found Yue Yue sent to the police station, the police contacted the family, the child went home safely. "I go, will take care of myself" Xiaoyi, male, 14 years old, high school affiliated to Shaanxi Normal University students in September 17th, 12 noon from home has not returned. According to Xiaoyi’s father, September 17th morning, children go to school lessons, because playing mobile phone in class, the teacher let him come back to call the parents. The same day 10 o’clock morning, Xiaoyi returned home, leaving a note left home, the note read: "I go, I can take care of myself." It is understood that Xiaoyi home wearing a black short sleeved, black trousers, black sports shoes, wearing a dark blue Adidas sports cap. The boy’s parents are still looking around, and enthusiastic Xi’an citizens are helping them. Hope that the children can go home as soon as possible, do not let the family worry again. Expert analysis, children need a psychological support system for three days, 3 third grade students away from home, although the reasons are not the same, but as a third grade students, the children must face the pressure of entrance and other aspects. Xu Jianguo, a professor invited by the National Institute of education administration, believes that the overwhelming majority of children run away from home are closely related to their own family education environment. "Teacher criticism, conflicts with parents are just the incentives for children to leave home." The famous educational psychology experts, Lianhu teachers in Shaanxi province school vice president Liu Peng believes that the child has run away with them for a long time the general academic failure, parent-child relationship conflict and school interpersonal relationship problems and so on. We should not focus on the cause, but also analyze the root cause. From the perspective of children’s long-term development, this is just an extreme phenomenon, focusing on the accumulation of a lot of children’s teaching

西安3名初三学生3天内接连离家出走 何种原因?  连着三天,西安市3名初三学生相继离家出走。16日离家出走的女孩悦悦被热心人及时发现送往辖区派出所,18日出走的小李昨晚已被家人找到,而另外一个出走的男孩,截至目前仍无音信。有教育专家认为,孩子离家出走与家庭教育环境有很大关系。而心理专家则表示,不是每一个人都有一个强大的心理,作为孩子,在他们遭遇挫折时急需要来自家庭和学校的心理支持。  男孩放学乘坐公交车失联  小李,男,14岁,身高1.7米左右,系西安交通大学附属中学初三学生,9月18日下午放学后失联。据家长介绍,他们调取的附近监控录像显示 ,小李从西安交大附中附近沙坡公交车站乘坐401路公交车(孩子从未乘坐过公交车),后不知从何地下车失联。据了解,小李失踪时身穿交大附中校服,背淡粉色书包。记者昨晚获悉,走失的小李已经被家人找到。  时间再往前推两天,9月16日下午6时,西安初三女生悦悦从家中出走。家人急疯了,在全市四处寻找。9月17日中午,有热心市民发现悦悦后送往辖区派出所,民警联系上家人,孩子安全回家了。  “我走了,会自己照顾自己”  小乙,男,14岁,系陕西师范大学附属中学初三学生 ,9月17日中午12点离家至今未归 。据小乙的父亲介绍,9月17日上午,孩子去学校 补课,因为在课堂上玩手机,老师便让他回来叫家长。当天上午10点左右,小乙回到了家中,留下一张纸条离家出走了,纸条上写着:“我走了, 自己会照顾自己。”据了解,小乙离家时身穿黑色短袖、黑色运动长裤、黑色运动鞋,头戴阿迪达斯深蓝色运动帽。  这名男孩的家长目前还在四处寻找,热心的西安市民也在帮助他们。希望孩子能尽快回家,别让家人再担心了。  专家解析  孩子需要一个心理支持系统  连着三天,3名初三学生离家出走,原因虽不尽相同,但作为一名初三学生,孩子们必然要面对升学等方面的压力。 国家教育行政学院特邀教授许建国认为,孩子离家出走绝大多数与他们自身的家庭教育环境有很大关系。  “老师批评、与家长发生冲突等只是孩子离家出走的诱因。”著名教育心理学专家、陕西省莲湖教师进修学校副校长刘鹏认为,孩子离家出走一般与他们长期以来学业受挫,亲子关系出现矛盾以及学校人际交往关系出现问题等有关。不能把目光只是聚焦到诱因,要分析根本原因。从孩子长期发展角度来看,这只是一个极端现象的表现,着眼于长期以来积累的很多孩子的教育问题、亲子问题才是解决之道。  如何去帮助孩子,刘鹏建议从两个方面去解决:一是帮助孩子有效地去提高他的学业成绩。二是帮助孩子做好学业规划,制定目标,把他的理想变成可实现的目标。不用一个尺子去比孩子,多一个标尺,多一个舞台,多一个英雄,多一个成功者。如果家长没有这样的视野,出了问题的时候,只会吐槽和抱怨教育制度,其实他们自己平时的种种暗示就是给孩子说:你不行,你学习差。家长的视野和境界其实决定了孩子的高度和发展,家长和学校要一起树立一个正确的成才观,正确的教育观,这样才能让孩子正确地去面对压力,而不是选择逃避压力,更不是抱怨吐槽,活在一个完全没有压力的理想世界中,这是不现实的。  关于亲子关系的问题,刘鹏说:“很多人在完全不懂教育的情况下当了家长,经常好心办坏事,善花结恶果。家长与其怨学校、怨教育、怨社会,不如反思一下我们应该如何正确地教育孩子。不要过于相信人的心理调节系统,我们每个人都没有自己想象的那么强大。我们更强调人的心理支持系统,在遇到困难困境、遇到了压力、遇到了各种他觉得无法解决的事情之后,在回到家里之后,有一个温馨的港湾,有一句温馨的话语,有一个鼓励的眼神,很多事情就可以烟消云散。我们家长应当好好反思自己是不是一个合格的家长,家长一小步,孩子一大步,这样才能伴随孩子健康成长,让孩子获得沟通交流的能力。”  本组稿件由记者王海鹏 实习生李圆 李颖 采写(西安晚报)注:视频仅为扩展阅读。 少女因成绩不理想带刀离家出走相关的主题文章: